Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone.
It isn’t just death we have to grieve, its life, its loss, its change.
And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad, the thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime.
That’s how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you cant breathe, that’s how you survive.
By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you wont feel this way, it wont hurt this much.
Greif comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way.
So the best we can do, the best anyone can do is try for honesty.
The really crappy thing the very worst part of grief is that you cant control it.
The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes.
And let it go when we can.
The very worst part is that the minute you think your past it, it starts all over again.
And always, every time, it takes your breath away.
There are five stages of grief, they look different on all of us but there are always five.
Denial.
Anger.
Bargaining.
Depression.
Acceptance.
cottage times are great cause its all about having a good time. you may do work but its at your own pace and it will usually end in good food :) camp fire is a staple. so nice to walk away and still have that smell on your hoodie. tulip times where pretty special. also napping in the middle of the day! even if the weather isnt the best, you still gotta find those few hours to take the boat out and rip it up on the tube. doin it all with some good friends and some new friends :) beautiful
